We often move through life, day by day, letting time pass without fully pausing to embrace the present. Between busy work schedules and the demands of home life, it’s easy to get caught up in the routine and forget how truly fortunate we are.
As I reflect on the past year, I’m reminded of just how lucky I am to have navigated another year of life, surrounded by love and filled with precious memories.
For me, this time of year has become particularly difficult. In January 2019, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Then, in January 2022, I faced a recurrence. This time of year, inevitably, brings with it a bit of extra worry. After my last recurrence, I was told to expect my cancer to return more quickly and with greater intensity. Studies have shown that this is often the pattern, and many of my fellow cancer friends have had similar experiences.
Despite this, I carry hope. I focus on staying healthy and work hard to keep the fear at bay. I keep myself busy, surrounded by my family and friends, and make an effort to fully live my life in the moments I have. Though I bear a heavy load, I’ve learned to carry it well over the years. Yes, there are tough days, but they’re far fewer now than they were in the early stages of my diagnosis.
I know I’m not alone - many of us face challenges, some visible and others hidden. Balancing life, managing worries, and coping with our realities is a daily task. One day at a time has become my method of survival.
Acknowledging my struggles doesn’t make me weaker or stronger—it simply makes me human.
As I reflect on the past year, I’m reminded of just how lucky I am to have navigated another year of life, surrounded by love and filled with precious memories.
For me, this time of year has become particularly difficult. In January 2019, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. Then, in January 2022, I faced a recurrence. This time of year, inevitably, brings with it a bit of extra worry. After my last recurrence, I was told to expect my cancer to return more quickly and with greater intensity. Studies have shown that this is often the pattern, and many of my fellow cancer friends have had similar experiences.
Despite this, I carry hope. I focus on staying healthy and work hard to keep the fear at bay. I keep myself busy, surrounded by my family and friends, and make an effort to fully live my life in the moments I have. Though I bear a heavy load, I’ve learned to carry it well over the years. Yes, there are tough days, but they’re far fewer now than they were in the early stages of my diagnosis.
I know I’m not alone - many of us face challenges, some visible and others hidden. Balancing life, managing worries, and coping with our realities is a daily task. One day at a time has become my method of survival.
Acknowledging my struggles doesn’t make me weaker or stronger—it simply makes me human.
Even
amid the difficulties, I’ve been fortunate to experience so many
beautiful moments over the past year. Some of the highlights I’m most
grateful for include:
- Watching my oldest daughter graduate from university with honors.
- Celebrating a BIG 49th birthday with many friends and family!
- Celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary.
- Celebrating my parents’ milestone 75th birthdays.
- Traveling to Mexico with dear friends.
- Visiting Alberta with my three daughters to spend time with beloved cousins.
- Attending a concert with my mom, sister-in-law, and daughters.
- Celebrating with all 12 of my dad’s siblings.
- Golfing a lot, so many fun, memorable rounds.
- Coaching basketball again, grateful for the opportunity!
- Enjoying vacations in Prince Edward Island and New Brunswick
- Receiving clear CT scans and good CA125 results in 2024.
These moments serve as a reminder that even in the face of uncertainty, life is full of joy, love, and blessings.
As I continue on this journey, I remain grateful for the support of my family, friends, and medical team. I’m not sure what the future holds, but I do know that I’ll keep moving forward—one day at a time, embracing both the struggles and the triumphs, always holding on to hope.
As I continue on this journey, I remain grateful for the support of my family, friends, and medical team. I’m not sure what the future holds, but I do know that I’ll keep moving forward—one day at a time, embracing both the struggles and the triumphs, always holding on to hope.
Happy New Year! May this year bring you all good health and happiness!
